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Trying to get back mentally

August 3rd, 2010 at 02:06 pm

Ever felt blah with life? That's me, right now... just blah. We just got back from a week at the beach and you would think that I would feel refreshed and whatnot. But, instead, I feel blah. Maybe, it is because of all the money we spent -- not on stupid souvenir junk -- but on food! We went with DH's entire side of the family so there were 13 of us total in a 4 bedroom condo. We split the groceries 4-ways but I think we got the short end of the stick... see, our little family of 4 don't eat much, especially when it comes to condiments. I know that sounds strange, but DH's family wanted and bought 2 big tubs of butter, jelly, cream cheese, ketchup, mustard, whip cream, hot fudge, nut toppings, fancy flavored coffee and fancy flavored cream for their coffee, etc... and then there is the junk food. They bought boxes of Little Debbie cakes, tons of donuts, several bags of chips, cakes, cookies, etc. No wonder they are all plus-sized! Geez. I always knew that they loved to eat, especially butter, but this was one of those in-your-face moments, you know? So, for a week at the beach, we had to spend almost $100 for just groceries --- that we didn't eat but just a little of! Yes, that is right--- it was nearly $400 for all the groceries that was bought for the entire family! Outrageous! And then, DH's mom always has to eat dinner at a restaurant each night (not fast food or Subway kinds of restaurants). So, even though our little family tried to eat reasonably, we still ended up spending an average of $40-$45 each night for 6 nights! So, for a week at the beach, our family of 4 spent about $350 for just food! No wonder I'm feeling blah right now.

Oh, and I just have to share... one night we made ice cream sundaes. Great summer treat, right? I proceeded to make our girls a small bowl of ice cream. DH's sister makes her kids these gigantic bowls of like 4 scoops of ice cream smothered in hot fudge, whip cream and nuts ON TOP of apple pies. Now, believe me, I'm all for having a treat... but I added up the calories for this outrageous concoction... it was over 1,000 calories! She made one for each of her 3 kids, herself, and DH's parents. They ate every bite of it!

4 Responses to “Trying to get back mentally”

  1. Broken Arrow Says:
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    Ah yes, I get the blahs all the time. But, I try to think of the blahs as just another fine day free from major stresses and drama. Because then it wouldn't be a blah day, but a bad day.

    I've also noticed that if I went and did something nice, coming back to my regular life make it feel blah too.

  2. baselle Says:
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    Re-developing the eye toward proper food portion size is one of the most painful things about losing weight. Its gets a little better when you realize that the first 5 bites of anything are going to the most satisfying. After that, its a long slog to the finish.

  3. Homebody Says:
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    Did you have a good time otherwise? Then it was money well spent for a nice vacation with family. Your girls will have that memory of fun with their cousins for their whole life, really.

    The blahs on the other hand, yes I get them sometimes, but then thankfully it lifts away.

    Can you use your blahs from the money spent to a challenge to not eat out the for a month or something?

  4. Jerry Says:
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    Food can be such a strange element of family outings, because people eat so differently and it can also lead to issues because there may be emotional baggage attached to it for many people. There are very few people with whom I am comfortable with that arrangement (everybody pitching in on groceries) because I know if I ate like for more than one day that I would feel sick. The eating out thing is also hard, because for some people it is an almost every day thing, and others they save it for when they have insurance of something to celebrate, like a birthday or whatever. I hope the trip was fun, anyway!
    Jerry

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